最近
睡覺的時間幾乎都在作夢
醒著的時間都被夢影響著
老闆交代的事一件未完,一件又起
MSN上掛著:一事無成,一籌莫展,就快一命嗚呼了
朋友看了回我說:"我給你一槍斃命好了,很快,不會痛的!!"
然後
自己暗暗地告訴自己
四十歲之後,我就不要再當上班族了...
| Couples Living Apart Together |
Dr.Robert T.Francoeur asks, "How much togetherness is healthy?" LAT is a very old and traditional way of life, dating back to the agricultural world of Old Europe. In those days, few newly wed couples could afford to establish their own household. Only wealthy farmers, burghers, and aristocrats could afford to pay the bride prize or dowry sufficient for the newlywed couple to establish their own household. The younger sons and daughters of the wealthy could marry but the bride and groom usually continued living with their parents, LAT, until they could afford their own home. Likewise when poor day laborers and servants married. The alternative was to join a convent or the clergy. "In a sense, LAT relations are only new if we forget history"
而傻子我也好奇著:"How close is normal?" 或是 "How far is too far?" , "How often is enough?"...
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